YOUR SUCCESS SHOULD NOT BE TRIUMPHANT

My friend Tony hit the nail on the head here. I have said this time and time agian....your message matters....it really matters....check out my BLOG posts for more...

http://www.messagematters.blogspot.com

Be sure your message is EXACTLY what you want to experience!

To your happiness,
Dr. Susan Duve

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It might be. It could be. But it absolutely doesn't HAVE to be. Nor "should" it be.

I've been reading some member profiles and forum posts this morning and it's interesting to me that -- right here in our own Liberty League community -- there are some people who seem determined to hold views and thoughts like:

-- "I know it's going to be hard work"
-- "I know that I've got a lot to learn to be successful"
-- "I'm very worried about my retirement"
-- "I haven't made my training sales yet but I'm excited about the business"
-- "I'm enjoying the challenges that Liberty League offers"
-- etc.

Let's be clear on this. You don't get what you want in this business; you get what you ARE. And if you're determined to focus on what you don't have instead of what you want....then you'll continue to get more of what you're currently experiencing.

-- If you think it's going to be hard work....it'll be hard work.
-- If you think you've got a lot to learn to be successful.....then you'll have to learn a lot.
-- If you're worried about your retirement...life will make sure you get to keep worrying about it.
-- Why would someone actually identify themselves as someone who "hasn't made any sales yet"??
-- If you adopt the mindset that you enjoy challenges, you'll always have a lot of challenges to enjoy

Some reading this will think I'm being harsh. And perhaps I am. But it's because it's so tiring to see people invalidating themselves!

It's irritating! It's frustrating! It's aggravating! And it does absolutely NOTHING to move you forward to your goals.

Too many people have adopted the idea that massive success requires one to overcome huge obstacles and to break through massive barriers. While that might be true for some other people, that doesn't mean that has to be your experience. In fact, the TRUTH is that your success could be as easy as a walk in the park. But only if you'll allow it.

Watch your language. If you're still talking like you did before you came into Liberty League, then you've missed out on a LOT of lessons. Pay attention to how top earners in this community speak. There are certain words you'll rarely (never?) hear them use. There are certain phrases you'll never hear them say. And you'll never hear them invalidating themselves or their ability to succeed!

If you want what leaders have, do what they do. Learn to speak with strength and confidence.

Evict ANY words or language from your life that disempower you.

And this is especially true on the Internet. Everything said here is here for a long time. Years. Do you really want to make a permanent record of a mindset that's keeping you stuck?

Think about it.

And, again, if this sounds brash, it's because there's often a difference between what people want to hear and what they need to hear. If you find that this article is causing you to be angry, frustrated or hurt........then why not stop and ask why that is. Is it possible that you've been holding a mindset that's not serving you? Is it possible that you've been talking about yourself in a way that's disempowering?

Your success doesn't have to be "triumphant". It can be as simple as changing how you see yourself, talk about yourself and move in your business.

Think about it.

Tony Rush
EMC, LLI
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