My friend Tony hit the nail on the head here. I have said this time and time agian....your message matters....it really matters....check out my BLOG posts for more...
http://www.messagematters.blogspot.com
Be sure your message is EXACTLY what you want to experience!
To your happiness,
Dr. Susan Duve
http://www.polarismediagroup.com/freedom4me
http://www.knowforyourself.com Use Coupon code: 135297
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It might be. It could be. But it absolutely doesn't HAVE to be. Nor "should" it be.
I've been reading some member profiles and forum posts this morning and it's interesting to me that -- right here in our own Liberty League community -- there are some people who seem determined to hold views and thoughts like:
-- "I know it's going to be hard work"
-- "I know that I've got a lot to learn to be successful"
-- "I'm very worried about my retirement"
-- "I haven't made my training sales yet but I'm excited about the business"
-- "I'm enjoying the challenges that Liberty League offers"
-- etc.
Let's be clear on this. You don't get what you want in this business; you get what you ARE. And if you're determined to focus on what you don't have instead of what you want....then you'll continue to get more of what you're currently experiencing.
-- If you think it's going to be hard work....it'll be hard work.
-- If you think you've got a lot to learn to be successful.....then you'll have to learn a lot.
-- If you're worried about your retirement...life will make sure you get to keep worrying about it.
-- Why would someone actually identify themselves as someone who "hasn't made any sales yet"??
-- If you adopt the mindset that you enjoy challenges, you'll always have a lot of challenges to enjoy
Some reading this will think I'm being harsh. And perhaps I am. But it's because it's so tiring to see people invalidating themselves!
It's irritating! It's frustrating! It's aggravating! And it does absolutely NOTHING to move you forward to your goals.
Too many people have adopted the idea that massive success requires one to overcome huge obstacles and to break through massive barriers. While that might be true for some other people, that doesn't mean that has to be your experience. In fact, the TRUTH is that your success could be as easy as a walk in the park. But only if you'll allow it.
Watch your language. If you're still talking like you did before you came into Liberty League, then you've missed out on a LOT of lessons. Pay attention to how top earners in this community speak. There are certain words you'll rarely (never?) hear them use. There are certain phrases you'll never hear them say. And you'll never hear them invalidating themselves or their ability to succeed!
If you want what leaders have, do what they do. Learn to speak with strength and confidence.
Evict ANY words or language from your life that disempower you.
And this is especially true on the Internet. Everything said here is here for a long time. Years. Do you really want to make a permanent record of a mindset that's keeping you stuck?
Think about it.
And, again, if this sounds brash, it's because there's often a difference between what people want to hear and what they need to hear. If you find that this article is causing you to be angry, frustrated or hurt........then why not stop and ask why that is. Is it possible that you've been holding a mindset that's not serving you? Is it possible that you've been talking about yourself in a way that's disempowering?
Your success doesn't have to be "triumphant". It can be as simple as changing how you see yourself, talk about yourself and move in your business.
Think about it.
Tony Rush
EMC, LLI
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Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Friday, September 11, 2009
Facing Times Of Uncertainty
In facing times of uncertainty it is easy to jump on the wagon with the rest of the crowd and head to Doomsville, especially with the media pouring their fear ladden suggestions to panic and shiver in your shoes about what is coming next.
I say WAKE UP PEOPLE and stop playing the victim role.
Start taking control of your thinking!! Do you really think for yourself or do you follow the media hype? Are you really convinced that filling your mind and thoughts of fear of the future is best for your success in life?
MAKE A CHOICE....are you going to follow the masses and choose to live in fear or are you going to create something bigger and more fulfilling.
Why not?
My good friend Jennie Marlow talks of this uncertainty (blog post below)and how to overcome it by focusing intentions in each moment on creating joy! Choose joy in every moment and see what happens....more joy is found!
En-joy,
Dr. Susan Duve
Intentional Focus on Joyfulness
September 3rd, 2009 by jenniemarlow
“Everywhere, people pray to be relieved of their suffering. There is an antidote. It is to overcome any fears that are standing in the way of the full expression of what is joyful for you, no matter what happened before this moment, or what you believe will happen in the future.”
— Grandfather White Elk
Grandfather White Elk teaches us that most of the suffering we undergo is self-induced, a figment of the imagination that paints scenarios of what it fears. He says it is certainly possible to create wealth based on fear; people do this all the time. He reminds us, however, that what is created with fear as its foundation will generate and support more fear-based thinking, and this will rob it of its potential to be joyful and freeing. Fear of the future and regret about the past are what cause most of the suffering we endure. We prejudge the moment, without allowing its true meaning and full potential to emerge. The path of joy is thereby lost to us. It is also the case that if we are riding a wave of excitement over a belief we have in a certain outcome, the consequences are the same. In fact, Grandfather White Elk says there is no energetic difference between the motives we hold based on fear and the motives we hold based on excitement. Both motives are based on what we imagine about the future. The path of joy is one forged in what is real and true for us in any present moment, even if that moment is painful. In every now, our access to what is joyful is fully available to us. Every present moment beckons us with this very simple choice: will we choose based on our fear of uncertainty, or will we choose based on what is real and actualize-able now? If what we choose to bring into our lives is to deliver freedom, fun, ease and delight, it must be created from an intentional focus on these important essences.
I say WAKE UP PEOPLE and stop playing the victim role.
Start taking control of your thinking!! Do you really think for yourself or do you follow the media hype? Are you really convinced that filling your mind and thoughts of fear of the future is best for your success in life?
MAKE A CHOICE....are you going to follow the masses and choose to live in fear or are you going to create something bigger and more fulfilling.
Why not?
My good friend Jennie Marlow talks of this uncertainty (blog post below)and how to overcome it by focusing intentions in each moment on creating joy! Choose joy in every moment and see what happens....more joy is found!
En-joy,
Dr. Susan Duve
Intentional Focus on Joyfulness
September 3rd, 2009 by jenniemarlow
“Everywhere, people pray to be relieved of their suffering. There is an antidote. It is to overcome any fears that are standing in the way of the full expression of what is joyful for you, no matter what happened before this moment, or what you believe will happen in the future.”
— Grandfather White Elk
Grandfather White Elk teaches us that most of the suffering we undergo is self-induced, a figment of the imagination that paints scenarios of what it fears. He says it is certainly possible to create wealth based on fear; people do this all the time. He reminds us, however, that what is created with fear as its foundation will generate and support more fear-based thinking, and this will rob it of its potential to be joyful and freeing. Fear of the future and regret about the past are what cause most of the suffering we endure. We prejudge the moment, without allowing its true meaning and full potential to emerge. The path of joy is thereby lost to us. It is also the case that if we are riding a wave of excitement over a belief we have in a certain outcome, the consequences are the same. In fact, Grandfather White Elk says there is no energetic difference between the motives we hold based on fear and the motives we hold based on excitement. Both motives are based on what we imagine about the future. The path of joy is one forged in what is real and true for us in any present moment, even if that moment is painful. In every now, our access to what is joyful is fully available to us. Every present moment beckons us with this very simple choice: will we choose based on our fear of uncertainty, or will we choose based on what is real and actualize-able now? If what we choose to bring into our lives is to deliver freedom, fun, ease and delight, it must be created from an intentional focus on these important essences.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
EVERYDAY IS A HOLIDAY
You are on the right path when you live and do what you love.
The world needs you to find your place to present your gift to the community.
Each event that gently pushes you or violently catapults you toward your PLACE is necessary for your purpose and delivery of your services to the world.
We are all better off when we do what we love and live our purpose.
Take the time to find out what that is...if you cannot find it...ask for help by reflecting in nature.
The world will reflect the direction back to you with complete clarity. It is up to you to act on it.
Dr. Susan Duve
You are on the right path when you live and do what you love.
The world needs you to find your place to present your gift to the community.
Each event that gently pushes you or violently catapults you toward your PLACE is necessary for your purpose and delivery of your services to the world.
We are all better off when we do what we love and live our purpose.
Take the time to find out what that is...if you cannot find it...ask for help by reflecting in nature.
The world will reflect the direction back to you with complete clarity. It is up to you to act on it.
Dr. Susan Duve
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